Hi Again WM - sorry I just realized I didn't explain very well what I mean about working on what and where and when
Our sister site Out of the Fog is for people who have someone in their lives (past or present)--sometimes more than one -- who have a personality disorder (PD) . I don't know if your childhood abuser(s) or H have a PD, but if so OOTF can really help to sort out their behaviour (see it for what it is, how it affects you, how to step back and minimize the effects, etc) while here at OOTS you can focus on you and your CPTSD.
You can certainly be a member of both boards no problem, I just wanted to mention that OOTF is available. If you do want to check OOTF out, there's a button at the top of the page that will take you right there.
Our sister site Out of the Fog is for people who have someone in their lives (past or present)--sometimes more than one -- who have a personality disorder (PD) . I don't know if your childhood abuser(s) or H have a PD, but if so OOTF can really help to sort out their behaviour (see it for what it is, how it affects you, how to step back and minimize the effects, etc) while here at OOTS you can focus on you and your CPTSD.
You can certainly be a member of both boards no problem, I just wanted to mention that OOTF is available. If you do want to check OOTF out, there's a button at the top of the page that will take you right there.