Hi C - I think we're really sensitized (not overly sensitive as some people would have us believe!) to people who are abusive. It's like a raw nerve when we encounter PD people and so we do react strongly. My H though knows a PD person when he encounters one, but he just disengages and doesn't lose any sleep about it whereas I gnash my teeth a lot or used to anyway. Now I just try and get the heck away from them before they trigger me, and when I have to be around them I use all the OOTF strategies.
So it may be that your coworkers don't feel as stressed as you do, but they probably do feel annoyed or like they don't want to be around her.
I hope things went well today
So it may be that your coworkers don't feel as stressed as you do, but they probably do feel annoyed or like they don't want to be around her.
I hope things went well today