sceal,
the only time i can remember feeling the feeling of joy is when my oldest daughter took her first step. it washed over me so completely (i was 31 at the time) that i knew what it was even tho i'd never felt it before. i don't remember feeling it since, either.
i know that my lack of feeling emotions comes from the alexithymia i have which pretty much prevents me from recognizing, understanding, or verbalizing how i feel. i'd be interested to know what kind of concern your t is talking about. that may be something for you to ask at your next session.
in the meantime, i don't think it's something for you to worry about. you'll either feel it or you won't. i don't know what not feeling joy means for you, or why your t would be 'concerned'. i hope you get an explanation for that.
sending you a hug filled with mindfulness and calm.
the only time i can remember feeling the feeling of joy is when my oldest daughter took her first step. it washed over me so completely (i was 31 at the time) that i knew what it was even tho i'd never felt it before. i don't remember feeling it since, either.
i know that my lack of feeling emotions comes from the alexithymia i have which pretty much prevents me from recognizing, understanding, or verbalizing how i feel. i'd be interested to know what kind of concern your t is talking about. that may be something for you to ask at your next session.
in the meantime, i don't think it's something for you to worry about. you'll either feel it or you won't. i don't know what not feeling joy means for you, or why your t would be 'concerned'. i hope you get an explanation for that.
sending you a hug filled with mindfulness and calm.