Expanding our window of tolerance

[storyworld]

Hello, all,
Does anyone know how long it takes to expand one's window of tolerance? I know that's probably somewhat subjective, but I'd love to read your experiences, especially in terms of being able to talk about one's childhood without getting flooded.

[Kizzie]

It really is quite individual StoryWorld and depends on a number of factors like whether you're in therapy and how effective it is for you, do you have support, etc.

I do know once I figured out what was going on my symptoms did decrease in intensity and frequency over a number of years.

[storyworld]

Thanks, Kizzie and Ghost. I was actually able to talk with my therapist about this recently. She assured me that I'm ... well, I don't know exactly how she phrased it. Not "normal" but that she's not concerned with what feels to me like lack of (or extremely slow) process. She also gave me some ways I can increase my window. I do have a great support in my husband. While I have "friends" I struggle to feel comfortable or believe they'll stick around long.