Sending hugs. I identify with what you are going through. Keep reading on in the book. It will explain about befriending your parts and having compassion for all of them even the ones you might think of as negative, i.e. angry parts. I found it easier to befriend and comfort the sad parts more than the angry ones but they are hurting as much or more.
It was overwhelming to me as well. I wrote about my parts. I listed them. I gave them 'names' or titles like sad one, fearful one, invisible one, shamed one, etc. But it wasn't until I found my 'going on with normal life' adult self that I could help these parts. I wrote to them as if they were separate from my adult self. That was a new way of thinking to me and has helped my adult self to 'grow up' a bit and be heard. The author mentions that even small things like standing up straight or sitting tall can help to give your parts comfort in that there is a 'big' person there to help.
So please, read on, and use this to help you see yourself with self-compassion. Just the fact that we 'get' this speaks of the horrible things we went through that caused us to become fragmented selves. Always know that you are not alone. We will help each other.
It was overwhelming to me as well. I wrote about my parts. I listed them. I gave them 'names' or titles like sad one, fearful one, invisible one, shamed one, etc. But it wasn't until I found my 'going on with normal life' adult self that I could help these parts. I wrote to them as if they were separate from my adult self. That was a new way of thinking to me and has helped my adult self to 'grow up' a bit and be heard. The author mentions that even small things like standing up straight or sitting tall can help to give your parts comfort in that there is a 'big' person there to help.
So please, read on, and use this to help you see yourself with self-compassion. Just the fact that we 'get' this speaks of the horrible things we went through that caused us to become fragmented selves. Always know that you are not alone. We will help each other.