Personally, I believe this is a process. Coming from backgrounds like ours where it could be dangerous not to predict what others would think and do - so that we could choose our course accordingly, this takes time. You need to feel safe. I have a few people who I have begun to feel safe with. This is new for me. Then there are others who I like to talk with but I am more careful what I share.
Plus, I have decided that the world needs more 'listeners' who don't have an answer for everything but are willing to hear others' opinions and comments.
Plus, I have decided that the world needs more 'listeners' who don't have an answer for everything but are willing to hear others' opinions and comments.