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Frustrated? Set Backs? / Re: For those struggling with ...

Last post by Desert Flower - Today at 07:44:59 PM

I struggle horribly with the holidays. It starts in October with my birthday. Then there's a bit of a lull before the main holiday season, and then all my FOO have birthdays during the following eight weeks. I'd hoped after 2 or 3 years of therapy that things might feel a bit easier. Objectively I have to admit that things are a bit easier and I am handling things better. But Little NK still struggles massively with the whole thing and it does not take much to send me into an EF.

Sounds terribly familiar Narckiddo.

Big hugs for all of us here.

#2

Frustrated? Set Backs? / Re: For those struggling with ...

Last post by TheBigBlue - Today at 06:51:03 PM

What if we did an open zoom meeting during the holidays? Open to all. Not sure how we could structure it. Could be a little complicated... But I find the thought kinda warming...

#3

Recovery Journals / Re: Ran's journey

Last post by Ran - Today at 02:31:24 PM

I don't well myself due to being sick and demanded for stuff like that and not taking me into consideration at all is unfair.

#4

Recovery Journals / Re: Ran's journey

Last post by Ran - Today at 02:25:42 PM

My grandma called me and asked if I'm at home and can chat. She wanted me to go with her for shopping my family's presents and help pick them out and because she gets dizzy on the elevator. It was a bit demanding that any day of the next week could I go. I said I'm busy and she was like is there really no day I could spare and when I said no, then she had this dissapointed voice. I mean not asking about how I feel or am at all, just go with her. She's also one of the narcissistic people.

#5

Recovery Journals / Re: Ran's journey

Last post by Ran - Today at 12:51:18 PM

Ran, I felt the emotion in your letter. I'm sorry you're struggling these days. Sending hugs and support.
 

Thank you Chart.  I just needed to let it all out. It helped a little.

#6

Frustrated? Set Backs? / Re: For those struggling with ...

Last post by Chart - Today at 12:41:42 PM

What if we did an open zoom meeting during the holidays? Open to all. Not sure how we could structure it. Could be a little complicated... But I find the thought kinda warming...

#7

Recovery Journals / Re: Ran's journey

Last post by Chart - Today at 12:24:26 PM

Ran, I felt the emotion in your letter. I'm sorry you're struggling these days. Sending hugs and support.
 

#8

Recovery Journals / Re: Ran's journey

Last post by Ran - Today at 12:16:26 PM

  Thank you for the hug.

#9

Recovery Journals / Re: Ran's journey

Last post by NarcKiddo - Today at 12:14:24 PM

 

#10

Recovery Journals / Re: starting over

Last post by NarcKiddo - Today at 12:11:13 PM

That sounds very stressful, San.