Quote from: Autumn_Dryad on May 03, 2017, 07:44:15 AM
How do others juggle this?
Well, I don't have an answer for you on that one, but wanted to reply just to let you know I struggle with it as well. I dislike the in-authenticity of this greeting. I'm always forced to say 'I'm okay' or 'I'm fine' with a smile because if I don't I'm shunned as someone who has 'issues'. It took me years and years to figure out that unless the person asking actually cares about your answer you just have to fake it to avoid making the greeter uncomfortable!! It's just so ridiculous. Why ask if you don't care? Ahhh the beauty of the English language. I'm sure there are parallels in other languages too