Quote from: Cc on July 23, 2016, 03:00:08 PM
Its just so hard today and I just wonder is all this effort to connect with others even worth it?
I have this human need to connect with others that I just dont feel capable of doing
I feel you. I think it's worth it. It takes time. Baby steps. I try to think "good enough is good enough" with each interaction I have with people. Sending you big Love. I imagine that you probably are capable, but that it just needs to feel okay first, which is totally healthy. You can slowly acclimate to socializing with people if you'd like to, ease yourself into it in your own timing. And if you are ever too overwhelmed, then it's okay to be where you're at too. We have to remember that our sensitivities and responses are normal ways of dealing with abnormal situations. Keep showing yourself compassion. Honor yourself, it's okay.
I try to remind myself that Shame is a social emotion. And the brain is a social organ. I believe our wounds lie in the realm of being social, and that eventually, so will our healing. In the meantime, thank you for sharing here and being real. Respect & Love to you!