You're all very encouraging, thank you.
I do have trouble being the mother I'd like to be for my son and my depression is my greatest enemy when it comes to that. My mother was not the best when it came to showing me that she loved me, and I have a great fear of doing that to my son. I hug him, and I give him kisses and I try to show him a lot of affection. I tell him I love him many, many, times over the course of everyday. I want him to know that even though mommy is sick, even though mommy is sad and angry sometimes, that I still love him more than anything.
My SO and I have been together for 5 years, and we've had our share of problems together...a lot of it I think is that he has his own inner battles he's struggling with. I don't think he realizes that he has any issues though, and that's the bigger problem. I'm battling with our relationship while also battling my own problems and frankly, I'm exhausted.
I try to remind myself that I've been through a lot worse, but then I can't help thinking that I shouldn't have to go through any of this at all. That even though it would be very hard at first, if I walked away, eventually it would be easier for me to concentrate on myself. It just adds to all of my depression and my stress, because it's not just my relationship or me that's suffering, it's also my son.
I do have trouble being the mother I'd like to be for my son and my depression is my greatest enemy when it comes to that. My mother was not the best when it came to showing me that she loved me, and I have a great fear of doing that to my son. I hug him, and I give him kisses and I try to show him a lot of affection. I tell him I love him many, many, times over the course of everyday. I want him to know that even though mommy is sick, even though mommy is sad and angry sometimes, that I still love him more than anything.
My SO and I have been together for 5 years, and we've had our share of problems together...a lot of it I think is that he has his own inner battles he's struggling with. I don't think he realizes that he has any issues though, and that's the bigger problem. I'm battling with our relationship while also battling my own problems and frankly, I'm exhausted.
I try to remind myself that I've been through a lot worse, but then I can't help thinking that I shouldn't have to go through any of this at all. That even though it would be very hard at first, if I walked away, eventually it would be easier for me to concentrate on myself. It just adds to all of my depression and my stress, because it's not just my relationship or me that's suffering, it's also my son.