I don't know about the science stuff here, that's all beyond me. I have heard of some developing ptsd symptoms, while having never been traumatized, because one of their parents had it.
I lived in fear, and not a healthy kind of fear, I think, of my parents, growing up. Even after the cpa stopped. Which was almost the exact time that corporal punishment was stopped in public schools in the U.S. Come to think of it, I received corporal punishment at school once or twice AFTER it had stopped at home. But I knew it could come right back in a blink of an eye...just like the excessive cpa that so loosley resembled corporal punsihment. So...was always afraid.
I did find out, in the past year, that not only are my f and m survivors of DV childhoods, their f and m are as well. So, I'm at least a 3rd generation DV survivor, to which I did not pass on to my own children, at least not through my own actions. My soon to be ex-wife...that's another matter entirely. She didn't do much to the kids, but they witnesses plenty of what she did to me.
I also learned that I am a 5th generation Veteran of Military service, as well, through my f family bloodline.
Brain getting fuzzy now...gonna stop
I lived in fear, and not a healthy kind of fear, I think, of my parents, growing up. Even after the cpa stopped. Which was almost the exact time that corporal punishment was stopped in public schools in the U.S. Come to think of it, I received corporal punishment at school once or twice AFTER it had stopped at home. But I knew it could come right back in a blink of an eye...just like the excessive cpa that so loosley resembled corporal punsihment. So...was always afraid.
I did find out, in the past year, that not only are my f and m survivors of DV childhoods, their f and m are as well. So, I'm at least a 3rd generation DV survivor, to which I did not pass on to my own children, at least not through my own actions. My soon to be ex-wife...that's another matter entirely. She didn't do much to the kids, but they witnesses plenty of what she did to me.
I also learned that I am a 5th generation Veteran of Military service, as well, through my f family bloodline.
Brain getting fuzzy now...gonna stop