Hello Dante,
I'm not on this forum too often, but I'm glad you wrote this out. I have cPTSD and also read Pete Walker. It took a while to get "back" into my body as I suffer from severe emotional neglect. That becomes clearer and clearer as I go on. I also had few memories going in to all of this. What I realized was that those memories provided a context. They were not isolated events. The memory of my mother not holding my hand when I was 3 or 4 years old (not even sure of my age), when she switched to holding her hat with the hand I reached for, the look on her face (in the photograph - I remember that moment) , the look on my face (very sad and bereft), tells me a lot. Other memories have been similar. I also have plenty of gaps in my childhood and teen memories. My memory still isn't great even for adult memories. I've been going to a Somatic Experiencing therapist for over 3 years now. It has helped a LOT. I feel more, not always great to feel, but it means I'm more in the present. Right now I'm going through a real rough patch, but it's another layer of the trauma coming up and out. When I'm not in this state my life has definitely improved. I'm more engaged with it. People are still difficult, but, today, at least, I can be gentle with myself about it.
I hope you read this and find something of help here. Be gentle with yourself.
I'm not on this forum too often, but I'm glad you wrote this out. I have cPTSD and also read Pete Walker. It took a while to get "back" into my body as I suffer from severe emotional neglect. That becomes clearer and clearer as I go on. I also had few memories going in to all of this. What I realized was that those memories provided a context. They were not isolated events. The memory of my mother not holding my hand when I was 3 or 4 years old (not even sure of my age), when she switched to holding her hat with the hand I reached for, the look on her face (in the photograph - I remember that moment) , the look on my face (very sad and bereft), tells me a lot. Other memories have been similar. I also have plenty of gaps in my childhood and teen memories. My memory still isn't great even for adult memories. I've been going to a Somatic Experiencing therapist for over 3 years now. It has helped a LOT. I feel more, not always great to feel, but it means I'm more in the present. Right now I'm going through a real rough patch, but it's another layer of the trauma coming up and out. When I'm not in this state my life has definitely improved. I'm more engaged with it. People are still difficult, but, today, at least, I can be gentle with myself about it.
I hope you read this and find something of help here. Be gentle with yourself.