Thank you all for the support, the courage to share your own stories, and tips of strategies that have worked for you.
I have seen my T recently, which has helped some. This voice tells me that I am worthless, a burden to be around, and so inherently horrible that I must avoid people or risk causing them harm with my very presence, etc. My T has been trying to get me to believe that the voice is wrong. Right now, I think I know that it is lying but I am yet not entirely believing it. I have tried to talk to this entity but it has no interest in listening; it just wants to destroy me. In other cases, I have been able to visualize the inner being that is talking to/yelling at me and have generally managed to figure out what is wrong and develop better coping mechanisms. In this case, really, I have tried many strategies to no avail.
I have, however, figured out an important factor that seems to be helping. This voice is not responding to me in the way that other parts of my inner self do because it is not really 'of me'. It is a poison planted in me by my NM, and she would never listen to any voice except hers either.
Also, a very important and somewhat empowering discovery that I have had from there is that the voice really is different than a voice I had many years (a good couple decades) ago that was of me and was telling me to kill myself. At that time, I was unfortunately listening to that voice but fortunately found my fist T in time. What I have realized is that at that dark time, I was investing a great deal of time and energy into figuring out how to kill myself. BUT now, I am spending a great deal of time and energy concentrating on how to NOT kill myself. This is a painful, scary, time- and energy-draining time but I am at least holding on to the idea that I am at least looking in the right direction this time.
Right now, I am just (well more than 'just') holding on to my Self as tightly as I can, and with whatever energy I can dredge up after that I am doing my best, adamantly and stubbornly, to take steps to move in the right direction, even if it is the tiniest step such as ensuring that I brush my teeth in the morning, I am taking that step.
I refuse to let this horrible voice win. Right now, I am unsure quite what to do about it, except hold on and take tiny steps forward. But, if I do nothing else I will hold on and take steps because I cannot and will not allow it to beat me. I appreciate all of your support in helping me to hold on and take those steps.
I have seen my T recently, which has helped some. This voice tells me that I am worthless, a burden to be around, and so inherently horrible that I must avoid people or risk causing them harm with my very presence, etc. My T has been trying to get me to believe that the voice is wrong. Right now, I think I know that it is lying but I am yet not entirely believing it. I have tried to talk to this entity but it has no interest in listening; it just wants to destroy me. In other cases, I have been able to visualize the inner being that is talking to/yelling at me and have generally managed to figure out what is wrong and develop better coping mechanisms. In this case, really, I have tried many strategies to no avail.
I have, however, figured out an important factor that seems to be helping. This voice is not responding to me in the way that other parts of my inner self do because it is not really 'of me'. It is a poison planted in me by my NM, and she would never listen to any voice except hers either.
Also, a very important and somewhat empowering discovery that I have had from there is that the voice really is different than a voice I had many years (a good couple decades) ago that was of me and was telling me to kill myself. At that time, I was unfortunately listening to that voice but fortunately found my fist T in time. What I have realized is that at that dark time, I was investing a great deal of time and energy into figuring out how to kill myself. BUT now, I am spending a great deal of time and energy concentrating on how to NOT kill myself. This is a painful, scary, time- and energy-draining time but I am at least holding on to the idea that I am at least looking in the right direction this time.
Right now, I am just (well more than 'just') holding on to my Self as tightly as I can, and with whatever energy I can dredge up after that I am doing my best, adamantly and stubbornly, to take steps to move in the right direction, even if it is the tiniest step such as ensuring that I brush my teeth in the morning, I am taking that step.
I refuse to let this horrible voice win. Right now, I am unsure quite what to do about it, except hold on and take tiny steps forward. But, if I do nothing else I will hold on and take steps because I cannot and will not allow it to beat me. I appreciate all of your support in helping me to hold on and take those steps.