Oops, I missed the earlier replies .
Thank you, Rainy, for the support and validation.
That's a good point about minimising and gaslighting, San. I can see what you mean. I think the minimising I experienced came from a place of denial and not wanting to know from the other person. Like putting up a blockade. Very isolating. As you say, I know what I know!
I'm sorry you've been dealing with minimising stuff as well, Bach. I hear you, it can be very draining.
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I fel better for writing what I did earlier. I'm not doing anything more about it today, and this is perfectly OK .
Thank you, Rainy, for the support and validation.
That's a good point about minimising and gaslighting, San. I can see what you mean. I think the minimising I experienced came from a place of denial and not wanting to know from the other person. Like putting up a blockade. Very isolating. As you say, I know what I know!
I'm sorry you've been dealing with minimising stuff as well, Bach. I hear you, it can be very draining.
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I fel better for writing what I did earlier. I'm not doing anything more about it today, and this is perfectly OK .