I have tried therapy many different times through the years. I even went to group therapy for a while. My most recent T is the one who diagnosed Cptsd. You could have knocked me over with a feather when she gave me that diagnosis. I was so happy to finally have a "name" for what I had. I was in a very bad way when I first began seeing this T. She was helpful, but I wasn't able to take in all she was saying to me. Even going to therapy stressed me out.
After about 6 months, I started EMDR with her. I had 10 treatments which left me thoroughly exhausted for a few days after each treatment. I believe the EMDR re-traumatized me somewhat. I can't honestly say it helped much. After 2 yrs, I stopped seeing T as I didn't think it was helping me. I am a convincing people-pleaser & felt that I was more concerned with making her happy with the progression of my treatment than I was. The complexity of Cptsd can make you unsure if T is actually helping you or not. I don't miss it. I found it hard to stay on track with her sometimes. I don't believe I was really ready for therapy at that time.
I read books she recommended, did my own research online & that's where I am today. But, I will go back if I feel it is necessary. No hard, fast rules here.
Marie, I think only you have the answer to whether to go it alone or not. You can always try it again & see what happens. 8 yrs is a long time, & you may do quite well with a T now. I understand being suspicious of medical help, also. I worked for a private physician for 30 yrs & referred hundreds of people to therapists. Some continued in therapy for many, many years with not much, if any, resolution to their problems. Imo, medication did more for the patients than therapy.
Best wishes in whatever you decide to do. Sending warm wishes your way. Thank you for posting
After about 6 months, I started EMDR with her. I had 10 treatments which left me thoroughly exhausted for a few days after each treatment. I believe the EMDR re-traumatized me somewhat. I can't honestly say it helped much. After 2 yrs, I stopped seeing T as I didn't think it was helping me. I am a convincing people-pleaser & felt that I was more concerned with making her happy with the progression of my treatment than I was. The complexity of Cptsd can make you unsure if T is actually helping you or not. I don't miss it. I found it hard to stay on track with her sometimes. I don't believe I was really ready for therapy at that time.
I read books she recommended, did my own research online & that's where I am today. But, I will go back if I feel it is necessary. No hard, fast rules here.
Marie, I think only you have the answer to whether to go it alone or not. You can always try it again & see what happens. 8 yrs is a long time, & you may do quite well with a T now. I understand being suspicious of medical help, also. I worked for a private physician for 30 yrs & referred hundreds of people to therapists. Some continued in therapy for many, many years with not much, if any, resolution to their problems. Imo, medication did more for the patients than therapy.
Best wishes in whatever you decide to do. Sending warm wishes your way. Thank you for posting