Forgiveness will set you free...
Forgiving my perps ( I have 2) will somehow help me move on?
I see parents forgive their children's murderer....and yet I could never forgive the wrongs against me. How do they forgive? Why does it help to let their monster know they are relieved of any and all guilt (that they never even felt) by the victim? NO ABUSER DESERVES FORGIVENESS. NO ONE.
I can't understand why forgiveness has to be a part of healing. I don't have forgiveness in me...and so I'm a lesser person ( wow not like I don't feel that way anyway)
I want to SCREAM at every person spouting off the necessity of forgiveness right in their face. The self righteous, all knowing, all healing power of forgiveness. F#$% THAT.
I am angry and feel like cursing every word. Just the idea that forgiveness is a task I have to complete . All it feels like is me selling myself out. My soul was murdered before I had a chance at "normal" life so now I have to forgive That? What kind of CRAP is That?
I longed for the death of my first perp because I just knew I would feel some lift that he was not on this planet any longer. Imagine my surprise when the death only sunk me deeper. Imagine my surprise when I felt worse. Like he got away with an entire life of never being exposed and now he never will.
I just want to know if anyone else here can understand how upset the idea of forgiveness makes me. If forgiveness has helped You, truly than I am so happy for you! I just don't understand it. I know I will never forgive.
Forgiving my perps ( I have 2) will somehow help me move on?
I see parents forgive their children's murderer....and yet I could never forgive the wrongs against me. How do they forgive? Why does it help to let their monster know they are relieved of any and all guilt (that they never even felt) by the victim? NO ABUSER DESERVES FORGIVENESS. NO ONE.
I can't understand why forgiveness has to be a part of healing. I don't have forgiveness in me...and so I'm a lesser person ( wow not like I don't feel that way anyway)
I want to SCREAM at every person spouting off the necessity of forgiveness right in their face. The self righteous, all knowing, all healing power of forgiveness. F#$% THAT.
I am angry and feel like cursing every word. Just the idea that forgiveness is a task I have to complete . All it feels like is me selling myself out. My soul was murdered before I had a chance at "normal" life so now I have to forgive That? What kind of CRAP is That?
I longed for the death of my first perp because I just knew I would feel some lift that he was not on this planet any longer. Imagine my surprise when the death only sunk me deeper. Imagine my surprise when I felt worse. Like he got away with an entire life of never being exposed and now he never will.
I just want to know if anyone else here can understand how upset the idea of forgiveness makes me. If forgiveness has helped You, truly than I am so happy for you! I just don't understand it. I know I will never forgive.