Hi
Just wondered if anyone understands what is happening with me at the moment.
My relationship of just under a year is going bad, nothing too dramatic just seems like we are both storing up hurts from each other and not getting over things.
For me its tricky, I need to change to make the other person happy it seems, but I am resistant to being told what to do or how to be. I stubbornly fail to change into the person I apparently should be, I think I'm OK already really.
There's nothing really bad going on, just two people who nearly meet each others needs but who grate against each other over the unmet needs.
Not really in need of advice, it just seems such a shame really.
Just wondered if anyone understands what is happening with me at the moment.
My relationship of just under a year is going bad, nothing too dramatic just seems like we are both storing up hurts from each other and not getting over things.
For me its tricky, I need to change to make the other person happy it seems, but I am resistant to being told what to do or how to be. I stubbornly fail to change into the person I apparently should be, I think I'm OK already really.
There's nothing really bad going on, just two people who nearly meet each others needs but who grate against each other over the unmet needs.
Not really in need of advice, it just seems such a shame really.