I'll do something a little different for this entry. I still have yet to find the strength to talk about a specific event in my life. But I feel like I will need to say it one day to finally feel at peace. But even though I struggle to talk about it, I want to talk about it. I want to spill out my heart but it hurts when I try. So for this I'll try something else. I have a fictional character who I realized has a similar story to my own. Not exactly, not the same place, not the same people. But the feelings and emotions are very much the same. So instead of sharing my story, I'll share his. And everything in bold will directly correlate to how I feel in my own story.
Trigger Warning: Suicidal Ideation
"It was almost just a normal day, I've done it many times before. Light a lantern and peer inside, let it sit on my desk and watch the flames. I adored the way it shined, flickered, and danced. Although this time, it was slightly different. Instead of just letting it perform its well-rehearsed routine, lighting the interior of my room, I wanted to make it better. I wanted to make this lantern efficient, I wanted to make it shine brighter. I'd never done something like that before, I thought it would be easy to try - I did the research, I planned it out. I tried to move pieces of the lantern, tried to rearrange its shape. But why? Well it was to be a gift to my parents, my carers. I adored them so much, I thought they'd deserve a present - something specially from me. I wanted to see their happy faces, I wanted to please them. All I wanted, was to make them happy.
I worked so hard, I thought nothing could go wrong. I was almost done, almost there. I was one step close to getting the finished result, the thing I craved the most. But then, I don't know what happened. Something went wrong. The fire inside leapt out of its cage, set the desk alight and soon the curtains. It happened so fast, I didn't know what to do or how to stop it. I didn't have any water with me, why didn't I think of that? How stupid was I! So what could I do? I ran downstairs, finding my mother and clutching onto her dress. I cried; "I didn't mean to, I swear I didn't mean to!" and she asked me what was wrong, what had happened. She was bewildered and confused, begging to understand. Then she saw the smoke, hanging below the ceiling and looming from the floor above. She rushed outside to retrieve her husband and my sister, she urged me to follow. She knew the house was on fire, and there was nothing we could do. It had spread too far, the damage had been done. I watched as they paced around, retrieving their prized belongings and then escaping outside onto the front lawn. I stood in the foyer, I couldn't move. Was this happening, was it real? Or maybe it was all a nightmare. It couldn't be... but I wish it was.
I saw the look on their faces. Not happiness. It was sadness, it was fear. What had I done? All I wanted was to make them happy. That's all I wanted. And I messed up. I messed up so bad. I felt guilt, guilt deep in my heart and I couldn't move. I heard their cries "Please, come out here". But I didn't. I thought, why should I? Why should I save myself when I'd caused them pain? So I stayed inside, even when the roof collapsed over my head and I suffocated. I woke up who knows when, but I still felt pain, emotional agony. I wanted to die, why didn't I die? I'm so sorry for what I've done. I'm so sorry for the pain I've caused.
All I wanted was happiness."
Trigger Warning: Suicidal Ideation
"It was almost just a normal day, I've done it many times before. Light a lantern and peer inside, let it sit on my desk and watch the flames. I adored the way it shined, flickered, and danced. Although this time, it was slightly different. Instead of just letting it perform its well-rehearsed routine, lighting the interior of my room, I wanted to make it better. I wanted to make this lantern efficient, I wanted to make it shine brighter. I'd never done something like that before, I thought it would be easy to try - I did the research, I planned it out. I tried to move pieces of the lantern, tried to rearrange its shape. But why? Well it was to be a gift to my parents, my carers. I adored them so much, I thought they'd deserve a present - something specially from me. I wanted to see their happy faces, I wanted to please them. All I wanted, was to make them happy.
I worked so hard, I thought nothing could go wrong. I was almost done, almost there. I was one step close to getting the finished result, the thing I craved the most. But then, I don't know what happened. Something went wrong. The fire inside leapt out of its cage, set the desk alight and soon the curtains. It happened so fast, I didn't know what to do or how to stop it. I didn't have any water with me, why didn't I think of that? How stupid was I! So what could I do? I ran downstairs, finding my mother and clutching onto her dress. I cried; "I didn't mean to, I swear I didn't mean to!" and she asked me what was wrong, what had happened. She was bewildered and confused, begging to understand. Then she saw the smoke, hanging below the ceiling and looming from the floor above. She rushed outside to retrieve her husband and my sister, she urged me to follow. She knew the house was on fire, and there was nothing we could do. It had spread too far, the damage had been done. I watched as they paced around, retrieving their prized belongings and then escaping outside onto the front lawn. I stood in the foyer, I couldn't move. Was this happening, was it real? Or maybe it was all a nightmare. It couldn't be... but I wish it was.
I saw the look on their faces. Not happiness. It was sadness, it was fear. What had I done? All I wanted was to make them happy. That's all I wanted. And I messed up. I messed up so bad. I felt guilt, guilt deep in my heart and I couldn't move. I heard their cries "Please, come out here". But I didn't. I thought, why should I? Why should I save myself when I'd caused them pain? So I stayed inside, even when the roof collapsed over my head and I suffocated. I woke up who knows when, but I still felt pain, emotional agony. I wanted to die, why didn't I die? I'm so sorry for what I've done. I'm so sorry for the pain I've caused.
All I wanted was happiness."