Similar experience here, in that my emotional status is less stable the bigger fraction of my time goes to recovery and healing time. My T helped me by pointing this out, too. It's important to balance recovery work and the rest of one's life - working on the old stuff while continuing to build the new stuff. This is hard time me because, honestly, I feel almost unable to begin anything new at all right now. I'm at level: macaroni collage in terms of confidence, attention span, and energy level these days. But she has a point... I can't ONLY be thinking about what happened with my mom and in my childhood; I need, as she called it, behavioral activation to get my brain to start pumping that dopamine and other good stuff that reminds me that I do enjoy some things. That's I'm, gulp, good at some things. I hate that that's so hard to type write now.
I recommend the book 'the language of letting go' by melody beattie', not sure if that comes up much on this board. We talk about it quite a bit on my home board
hugs.
I recommend the book 'the language of letting go' by melody beattie', not sure if that comes up much on this board. We talk about it quite a bit on my home board
hugs.