When I first read about inner child work, I dismissed it as a bunch of new age garbage. Even if it is real, I thought, I'm an adult now. I have no need for a child.
Then, I found out about the inner critic, and that resonated deeply with me. I knew I had an inner critic, even before I knew what to call it. I learned how to tell it (with varying degrees of efficacy) to shut its nasty face one night when I had a breakdown, and was almost consumed by suicidal thoughts. The same people who talked about the inner critic, also talked about the inner child. So, I decided to try and talk with it as though it existed.
I accessed it, finally, and I can say that it is just as real a part of me as the inner critic, if more repressed. My inner child is wonderful. I accessed a part of my grief I had never known even existed, and it feels wonderful. She goes away sometimes, but she's never too far now, sitting at her lovely piano, surrounded with things she can hold. She's truly a gift I would not have if not for this forum. Thank you, from the bottom of both of our hearts. Hopefully, one day, we can become one.
Then, I found out about the inner critic, and that resonated deeply with me. I knew I had an inner critic, even before I knew what to call it. I learned how to tell it (with varying degrees of efficacy) to shut its nasty face one night when I had a breakdown, and was almost consumed by suicidal thoughts. The same people who talked about the inner critic, also talked about the inner child. So, I decided to try and talk with it as though it existed.
I accessed it, finally, and I can say that it is just as real a part of me as the inner critic, if more repressed. My inner child is wonderful. I accessed a part of my grief I had never known even existed, and it feels wonderful. She goes away sometimes, but she's never too far now, sitting at her lovely piano, surrounded with things she can hold. She's truly a gift I would not have if not for this forum. Thank you, from the bottom of both of our hearts. Hopefully, one day, we can become one.