Just a quick reply for the moment, Candid.
Maybe you're being self-absorbed as much as everyone else on here as opposed to "everywhere else" in your life. I really believe that we need to be self-absorbed in some parts of our life in order to heal. Why not on a forum where we go to heal??? OK, we vent here too but that's part and parcel of our healing. And anyway you are not just self-absorbed here! You reply to other people's posts and not just in a self-absorbed way. The way you write shows you care about other people here, and you obviously do about people in your non-digital world, like your husband.
to you, Candid.
Maybe you're being self-absorbed as much as everyone else on here as opposed to "everywhere else" in your life. I really believe that we need to be self-absorbed in some parts of our life in order to heal. Why not on a forum where we go to heal??? OK, we vent here too but that's part and parcel of our healing. And anyway you are not just self-absorbed here! You reply to other people's posts and not just in a self-absorbed way. The way you write shows you care about other people here, and you obviously do about people in your non-digital world, like your husband.
to you, Candid.