gaahhhhh. yesterday was bad. I was knee deep in looking at the the whole story and just wallowing in bewilderment.
There's no answer to it, you have to get that much from it. People can be dreadful. They always will. I phoned the samaritans late last night, not suicidal but its important to k ow that they are there for emergency counselling. Sometimes all you need is someone to hear your story and confirm just how off the wall it was. And it was. That helped a lot, it was getting dangerously close to the self blame thing, and yet I'm not even remotly blame for what hit me, not even slightly.
Anyway, it helped. Today I start with my new counsellor. EMDR and all that. Yes I'm out on a limb, but it's my limb.
There's no answer to it, you have to get that much from it. People can be dreadful. They always will. I phoned the samaritans late last night, not suicidal but its important to k ow that they are there for emergency counselling. Sometimes all you need is someone to hear your story and confirm just how off the wall it was. And it was. That helped a lot, it was getting dangerously close to the self blame thing, and yet I'm not even remotly blame for what hit me, not even slightly.
Anyway, it helped. Today I start with my new counsellor. EMDR and all that. Yes I'm out on a limb, but it's my limb.