Well I'm back home. I sent soon to be ex husband an email telling him it was time for us to separate. He called while I was driving and when he asked why I told him I knew he spent the last two Friday's with his lover behind my back and I no longer want to live that way. I told him I'd like to end this peacefully and like adults. So far so good.
It was a little hard being here but not as hard as I thought. H told me he was really impressed with how well I'm handling things and I thanked him and said I've been working hard on my own stuff for awhile and I do feel mentally/emotionally much stronger. Even though it's over for us maybe seeing my progress will inspire him to do some of his work and serve as an example for him that people can grow and change.
I'm excited for all the future holds and know things can only get better from here. Just knowing the truth is making things better already.
It was a little hard being here but not as hard as I thought. H told me he was really impressed with how well I'm handling things and I thanked him and said I've been working hard on my own stuff for awhile and I do feel mentally/emotionally much stronger. Even though it's over for us maybe seeing my progress will inspire him to do some of his work and serve as an example for him that people can grow and change.
I'm excited for all the future holds and know things can only get better from here. Just knowing the truth is making things better already.