Quote from: Butterfly66 on November 07, 2016, 05:39:32 PMI woke up in the middle of the night worrying that I may have a personality disorder and I am flawed, defective in a deep way and ... no one will want me or love me because I am flawed.
This seems to be compulsory thinking for those of us raised by PD parents. I have it every so often, and I know it can floor me.
QuoteI know perfection does not exist so I suppose I want to be okay just as I am, to be loveable just as I am.
You have to believe it. I hope your "beautiful meditation" tells you you're better than okay just as you are, and infinitely lovable no matter what. These are good affirmations to make, whenever you think of it, plus any other uplifting things you can include such as "people like me, I'm smart, I'm beautiful, I'm kind" etc.
Those kind of thoughts get rid of those fleas that make us justifiably criticise ourselves. But after realising we've gone wrong, we can say "I'm lovable anyway" and get back on track faster (much faster) than if we go on beating ourselves up.