I've been looking for a slide show presentation I found online. I tried to save it several times, but it didn't 'take', so I'll have to return with it later.
I have a problem with dissociation, yet it doesn't present in the traditional ways. I scored .06% on the traditional diagnostic scale which puts me at the low end of normal.
I don't know if anyone can relate. In different situations I have access to parts of my "personality" brain, memory etc. but not all of them. It's a bit like if I were using a computer app like microsoft office - in different situations only some of the many functions are available in that particular type of situation. For example in what I'll call "positive-social" situations I don't have access to fear or anger except at very high provocation. I am often anxious but that is different to having access to fear.
This effectively puts me into an involuntary fawn, which is worsened in conditions in which threat becomes obvious - I have even less resources available to me in the moment. Sometimes I have access to these emotions after I have left the situation, but the greater the threat, the less likely I am to remember it long-term. All of which makes me a perfect target for abusers.
Also in situations which cause intense fear, my blood pressure and pulse either stay stable or drop (which is the opposite of what should happen). My distress is not apparent to others except as a 'blankness'. I become unable to respond.
I also have times (alone) in which I am overwhelmed by memories, fear and anger which aren't usually available or even accessible. In those times those feelings are the only parts I can access.
What I'm trying to describe is a kind of fragmentation which isn't obvious. I have no different names, ages or identities, just shut-down aspects of myself, in which other parts of the programme aren't available.
Does this ring any bells with anyone else?
I have a problem with dissociation, yet it doesn't present in the traditional ways. I scored .06% on the traditional diagnostic scale which puts me at the low end of normal.
I don't know if anyone can relate. In different situations I have access to parts of my "personality" brain, memory etc. but not all of them. It's a bit like if I were using a computer app like microsoft office - in different situations only some of the many functions are available in that particular type of situation. For example in what I'll call "positive-social" situations I don't have access to fear or anger except at very high provocation. I am often anxious but that is different to having access to fear.
This effectively puts me into an involuntary fawn, which is worsened in conditions in which threat becomes obvious - I have even less resources available to me in the moment. Sometimes I have access to these emotions after I have left the situation, but the greater the threat, the less likely I am to remember it long-term. All of which makes me a perfect target for abusers.
Also in situations which cause intense fear, my blood pressure and pulse either stay stable or drop (which is the opposite of what should happen). My distress is not apparent to others except as a 'blankness'. I become unable to respond.
I also have times (alone) in which I am overwhelmed by memories, fear and anger which aren't usually available or even accessible. In those times those feelings are the only parts I can access.
What I'm trying to describe is a kind of fragmentation which isn't obvious. I have no different names, ages or identities, just shut-down aspects of myself, in which other parts of the programme aren't available.
Does this ring any bells with anyone else?