hey, sceal,
when you're in therapy, it's not necessarily your job to notice or see everything about yourself and your issues. that's what the therapist is for. if we knew all the answers, if we could see everything we needed to see for ourselves, we wouldn't need the help we can get from a therapist.
it's ok for you not to know it all. it doesn't mean you're lazy or not working hard enough. this stuff is confusing, and we need help with it. i'm a therapist, but i can't see it all for myself. that's why i'm in therapy, too.
sending you a warm, loving hug, sceal. you're ok and you're doing ok. no shame or blame in not being perfect. the people here helped me see that for myself.
when you're in therapy, it's not necessarily your job to notice or see everything about yourself and your issues. that's what the therapist is for. if we knew all the answers, if we could see everything we needed to see for ourselves, we wouldn't need the help we can get from a therapist.
it's ok for you not to know it all. it doesn't mean you're lazy or not working hard enough. this stuff is confusing, and we need help with it. i'm a therapist, but i can't see it all for myself. that's why i'm in therapy, too.
sending you a warm, loving hug, sceal. you're ok and you're doing ok. no shame or blame in not being perfect. the people here helped me see that for myself.