Hi.
When things began to hit me in the face in May, I started therapy again. I was good with the therapist. Then I found out I was CPTSD. She didn't specialize in it. I changed to someone who did. After 2 weeks, the T said I was too complex and needed to refer me to someone else- do I feel as though I have leprosy? I found someone who lists CPTSD as her specialty.
Last week I went to my appt (remember shoulder surgery was on the 10th). I was kicking into flashbacks. The T got really nervous. She asked me if I needed to go to the hospital many times throughout the session- no. I told her I was safe. At the end of the meeting she asked me what meds I was taking. I hadn't taken anything for pain before my appt. I told her, she freaked and said "Xmg of X, that would knock me out cold". I told her the 'therapeutic dose' and I'm not taking anything near that. She said "still, that's a lot". Example: It's like if the basic beginning dose of Zoloft is 50 mg, I'm taking 3 mg. If that makes sense. I felt extreme shame.
Then I went to my psych MD. He said it is really common for people to increase flashbacks and symptoms after surgery and a lot of pain. My T should have known this if CPTSD was her specialty.
It turned out I had to cancel my appt with the T because of a physical therapy appt. Friday I called her. She didn't return the call. I texted her that I needed to change appts- wanted to cover myself. I called their group office and left a message. OK. I did what I needed to do.
She called and left a message Mon afternoon and it went to voicemail. She texted me. I said ok to the time. Then I thought of how many times she has asked me if I needed to go to the hosp, her freak concerning the meds and her not knowing the stress of surgery, pain, pain meds- increase symptoms and flashbacks. I texted her my concerns and said I wouldn't be at the appt.
I decided I would rather be with a T who trusted me, willing to learn and doesn't freak who does work with people with abuse than a T with CPTSD as her specialty. I called the 1st T and made an appt.
Anyone have any thoughts?
When things began to hit me in the face in May, I started therapy again. I was good with the therapist. Then I found out I was CPTSD. She didn't specialize in it. I changed to someone who did. After 2 weeks, the T said I was too complex and needed to refer me to someone else- do I feel as though I have leprosy? I found someone who lists CPTSD as her specialty.
Last week I went to my appt (remember shoulder surgery was on the 10th). I was kicking into flashbacks. The T got really nervous. She asked me if I needed to go to the hospital many times throughout the session- no. I told her I was safe. At the end of the meeting she asked me what meds I was taking. I hadn't taken anything for pain before my appt. I told her, she freaked and said "Xmg of X, that would knock me out cold". I told her the 'therapeutic dose' and I'm not taking anything near that. She said "still, that's a lot". Example: It's like if the basic beginning dose of Zoloft is 50 mg, I'm taking 3 mg. If that makes sense. I felt extreme shame.
Then I went to my psych MD. He said it is really common for people to increase flashbacks and symptoms after surgery and a lot of pain. My T should have known this if CPTSD was her specialty.
It turned out I had to cancel my appt with the T because of a physical therapy appt. Friday I called her. She didn't return the call. I texted her that I needed to change appts- wanted to cover myself. I called their group office and left a message. OK. I did what I needed to do.
She called and left a message Mon afternoon and it went to voicemail. She texted me. I said ok to the time. Then I thought of how many times she has asked me if I needed to go to the hosp, her freak concerning the meds and her not knowing the stress of surgery, pain, pain meds- increase symptoms and flashbacks. I texted her my concerns and said I wouldn't be at the appt.
I decided I would rather be with a T who trusted me, willing to learn and doesn't freak who does work with people with abuse than a T with CPTSD as her specialty. I called the 1st T and made an appt.
Anyone have any thoughts?