Hi all,
I originally felt bad about this recent conversation, but now I don't. Although my response isn't my ultimate goal, I think it's a step in the right direction. I'm very slowly coming to the realization that I can feel and express anger, although I'm going to need a lot of practice to do it appropriately because I've never had it modeled. I wasn't really angry here, but I didn't have the energy or interest to "be polite" to someone who was so obviously incapable of returning the favor. Mostly I'm proud that I saw it for what it was: A narcissist fishing for victims.
[Upon meeting someone new at a social event held by a "friend"]
Adult Male: "Hi, I'm ___."
Me: "Hi, ___, I'm Sunny. Nice to meet you."
Adult Male: "Yeah, it's nice to meet you, I guess."
Me: *pause* "You're a *."
I originally felt bad about this recent conversation, but now I don't. Although my response isn't my ultimate goal, I think it's a step in the right direction. I'm very slowly coming to the realization that I can feel and express anger, although I'm going to need a lot of practice to do it appropriately because I've never had it modeled. I wasn't really angry here, but I didn't have the energy or interest to "be polite" to someone who was so obviously incapable of returning the favor. Mostly I'm proud that I saw it for what it was: A narcissist fishing for victims.
[Upon meeting someone new at a social event held by a "friend"]
Adult Male: "Hi, I'm ___."
Me: "Hi, ___, I'm Sunny. Nice to meet you."
Adult Male: "Yeah, it's nice to meet you, I guess."
Me: *pause* "You're a *."