Hi all I'm new to the forum,
My story is long and complicated, so I'll try to limit the details here.
To put it shortly, I'm up against two siblings (regarding our aging parents) who have Narcissism and (I think) Histrionic personality disorders. As I'm watching them circle me like sharks.
They got caught lying to me about something important that I found out from a stranger. When I confronted them (believe me I had to, or I wouldn't have), they did the following:
1.) Collaborated and sent one sister after me (like two car salesmen)
2.) This first sister ignored any comments about what I learned and turned the tables on me, acting like I was attacking her. When I stood firm ...
3.) She kept sending texts to push my buttons. When I stood firm ...
4.) The other sister activated and sent a warm email, acting oblivious, inviting me out to lunch ... when I confronted her as well, standing firm ...
4.) She went Jerry Springer on me and started the "I'll never forgive you" and "there are no words for you". She then ordered me to stop texting her (I was responding to her texts). Now she's threatening to exclude me from a relationship we don't have.
By the way, the lie I caught them in was moving my little old parents out of the town I live in. They're acting like my reacting to the fact that I learned this from a stranger is so unreasonable and it's cruel for me to resist them.
No wonder I'm so messed up!
My story is long and complicated, so I'll try to limit the details here.
To put it shortly, I'm up against two siblings (regarding our aging parents) who have Narcissism and (I think) Histrionic personality disorders. As I'm watching them circle me like sharks.
They got caught lying to me about something important that I found out from a stranger. When I confronted them (believe me I had to, or I wouldn't have), they did the following:
1.) Collaborated and sent one sister after me (like two car salesmen)
2.) This first sister ignored any comments about what I learned and turned the tables on me, acting like I was attacking her. When I stood firm ...
3.) She kept sending texts to push my buttons. When I stood firm ...
4.) The other sister activated and sent a warm email, acting oblivious, inviting me out to lunch ... when I confronted her as well, standing firm ...
4.) She went Jerry Springer on me and started the "I'll never forgive you" and "there are no words for you". She then ordered me to stop texting her (I was responding to her texts). Now she's threatening to exclude me from a relationship we don't have.
By the way, the lie I caught them in was moving my little old parents out of the town I live in. They're acting like my reacting to the fact that I learned this from a stranger is so unreasonable and it's cruel for me to resist them.
No wonder I'm so messed up!