Dear Faith, welcome to Out of the Storm. Your current crisis involving your husband sounds quite frightening! And on top of that, it seems to have triggered the return of trauma from your abusive childhood. There are a number of people here on this site with very similar stories. You are not alone.
All of us here on this site are dealing with the long-term effects of complex ptsd, also known as complex trauma, and also known as developmental trauma. Some of us take medication in order to function better, but others of us dislike medication or find it does not work for them. There are discussions here on other paths of healing that have worked for people.
Does your therapist know about your childhood trauma? Can you discuss it with him in confidence?
I do know there is hope! For starters, you are a reader! This site, and I personally, highly recommend a book by Pete Walker, "CPTSD: From Surviving to Thriving." It is a warm and compassionate explanation of many of the aspects of CPTSD. It will help with your confusion about what is happening to you. It will show you that you are not alone and that there is hope indeed.
Though the circumstances of my own journey with CPTSD are somewhat different than yours, I do know very well those overwhelming feelings of fear, shame, pain, confusion, exhaustion. You are so wonderful to be able to care for your son through all of this! You deserve relief. You deserve to be well cared for. You deserve the kind of care you give to your son.
I hope you will stay in touch here. Big hugs to you
All of us here on this site are dealing with the long-term effects of complex ptsd, also known as complex trauma, and also known as developmental trauma. Some of us take medication in order to function better, but others of us dislike medication or find it does not work for them. There are discussions here on other paths of healing that have worked for people.
Does your therapist know about your childhood trauma? Can you discuss it with him in confidence?
I do know there is hope! For starters, you are a reader! This site, and I personally, highly recommend a book by Pete Walker, "CPTSD: From Surviving to Thriving." It is a warm and compassionate explanation of many of the aspects of CPTSD. It will help with your confusion about what is happening to you. It will show you that you are not alone and that there is hope indeed.
Though the circumstances of my own journey with CPTSD are somewhat different than yours, I do know very well those overwhelming feelings of fear, shame, pain, confusion, exhaustion. You are so wonderful to be able to care for your son through all of this! You deserve relief. You deserve to be well cared for. You deserve the kind of care you give to your son.
I hope you will stay in touch here. Big hugs to you