I like the sound of this book, WhoBuddy. Added to my reading list.
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Show posts MenuQuoteI thought I was brave to choose to go back to her, but I was disappointed by her lack of bothering to read any of my notes, or remember anything about me. It's like she didn't see me either, and noone in my FOO 'saw me' - not really.
QuoteIt's things like this that make me feel very small and powerless and vulnerable.
QuoteI think it can be very individual and require a lifelong dedication to moving past it. Yet I also think it is a doorway to personal growth and finding a deeper experience to life- I didn't always see trauma that way.This I feel is the upside of CPTSD; the silver lining. The personal growth potential is huge if you are open to it. And yes, life can be experienced more deeply, in a beautiful enriching way. This has been my experience too. So, in a way, trauma can bring unexpected blessings. Life has meaning for each of us, it's just that it can take a while to find it through the fog and pain of trauma. But when we start to feel our way there, it can be so rewarding.
QuoteI hear you BB That's why I think it took me forty years to understand and accept I was abused. I've always felt I would not have spent decades believing I was crazy if my FOO had physically/sexually abused me. Although I would still have CPTSD, at least I would have known more clearly earlier on something was done to me rather than think I was the source of my own misery.
QuoteIt surprises me that it wasn't included. As many of us know only too well here at OOTS, Complex PTSD can develop from emotional abuse/neglect alone. Perhaps it's that the World Health Organization is very focused on major political, economic and social crises around the world so emotional abuse such as many of us have experienced in our homes/workplaces/relationships/religions/etc may be too nuanced for them to take into account.
Quotehealing is the outcome of reversing long-standing patterns of self-alienation and building the capacity to love and accept our "selves". When we reclaim our lost souls and wounded children, befriend them, and allow ourselves to trust deeply felt compassionate impulses, to reach out to them and build bonds of secure attachment, they feel safe and welcome at long last. And we feel whole."
QuoteI feel bad for him in a way, nice chap and all that but he is as much use to me as a chocolate teapot.
QuoteLike going to see a chiropodist after a shark has had your foot off.