I've lived all of my adult life with the fear that something horrible is going to happen to me. This fear has destroyed romantic relationships and friendships throughout my life. From what I have read on this site and the book I am reading, I understand that when I am experiencing this fear I am living in the past.
My Baptist minister father told me once that god was going to kill someone in our church in the month of October of that year because they turned to sin and away from him. He would not tell me who it was. I was terrified because I believed it was me. Similar scenarios played out over my childhood with my father singling me out as the child who he told his dark prophecies to. He would put me in the car and drive and would tell me how god was angry and how he was going to destroy the world during our lifetime. I believed my father completely.
This coming Monday I am meeting for the first time with a psychiatrist who specializes in cognitive therapy. My current psychiatrist diagnosed me with Bi-Polar disorder ten years ago but I never believed I was or am.
I'm a 50 year old man and I'm sitting here at work shaking like a child. My boss and co-workers are not aware of it because I'm hiding it. I'm tired of hiding it. I want it to go away.
My Baptist minister father told me once that god was going to kill someone in our church in the month of October of that year because they turned to sin and away from him. He would not tell me who it was. I was terrified because I believed it was me. Similar scenarios played out over my childhood with my father singling me out as the child who he told his dark prophecies to. He would put me in the car and drive and would tell me how god was angry and how he was going to destroy the world during our lifetime. I believed my father completely.
This coming Monday I am meeting for the first time with a psychiatrist who specializes in cognitive therapy. My current psychiatrist diagnosed me with Bi-Polar disorder ten years ago but I never believed I was or am.
I'm a 50 year old man and I'm sitting here at work shaking like a child. My boss and co-workers are not aware of it because I'm hiding it. I'm tired of hiding it. I want it to go away.