Sara
The reality is exactly as you described it; what "myself" is there to get back to? My therapist told me straight up that I had no "myself" but rather as I recovered I would slowly discover who that self is.
Not all therapists are trained to treat CPTSD. I hear your pain around being invalidated by some you have seen. I can only encourage you to use google to track down relevant therapists close to you.
There is hope. My journey is one of recovery, slowly over several years after a lifetime of total chaos.
As others have said, be kind to yourself and be patient but also diligent in your efforts to recover.
The reality is exactly as you described it; what "myself" is there to get back to? My therapist told me straight up that I had no "myself" but rather as I recovered I would slowly discover who that self is.
Not all therapists are trained to treat CPTSD. I hear your pain around being invalidated by some you have seen. I can only encourage you to use google to track down relevant therapists close to you.
There is hope. My journey is one of recovery, slowly over several years after a lifetime of total chaos.
As others have said, be kind to yourself and be patient but also diligent in your efforts to recover.