Out of the Storm

CPTSD and Others => Family => Our Relationships with Others => Dating; Marriage/Divorce; In-Laws => Topic started by: Sasha on May 28, 2018, 10:53:50 AM

Title: I need space/ N/C
Post by: Sasha on May 28, 2018, 10:53:50 AM
I'm struggling in a new relationship with triggers, micromanaging, huge levels of inner and outer critic and now slipping into what feels like a depression.

You know the expression 'can't see the wood for the trees?'. Well right now I just can't understand why on Earth I am with someone and why I am doing this to myself.

So, to anyone with an experience or thoughts to share on this - how have you managed to when all you want to do is be alone again?

Could space with N/C be a good a temporary option, while I sort my head and work out my next decision?
Title: Re: I need space/ N/C
Post by: Estella on May 30, 2018, 05:44:57 PM
Hi Sasha,

I can't give you any advice because I don't know you, or enough about your situation. If you're leaning towards the N/C - do what's right for you and your own recovery journey,