so... things were finally sorting out for me,,, then I get a message.
My ex has been found dead after falling down stairs.
I have no words
James, so sorry to hear of your loss. Please try and take care of yourself. Sending you my deepest condolences.
Oh no. I'm so sorry.
James, I'm so very sorry to hear this! What a shock! Please take care of yourself :hug:
So very sorry to hear this James :grouphug:
98% of people I know have raced to tell me it wasn't my fault. I did my best to stop the alcoholism but failed.
2%....
Nothing will ever come close to watching someone you love falling to pieces and having zero power to intervene and save both of your lives, but the closest is that 2% of grandstanders who assume that you played a part. 4 years after I left I am still a traincrash.
"balanced" apparently. Try living through what I lived through and tell me about balance.
And yes, she was a lovely person, but she left me before I left her. And yes, I'm angry at her for dying.
:grouphug: Hoping talking here and being heard and supported will help James.
I'm sorry James. :grouphug: Thinking of you.
James, I am sorry to hear about your loss.