This topic has been redirected once more to to When Someone in Your Life has CPTSD (http://outofthefog.net/C-PTSD/forum/index.php?board=12.0).
http://outofthefog.net/C-PTSD/forum/index.php?topic=3645.0 (http://outofthefog.net/C-PTSD/forum/index.php?topic=3645.0)
PS: As this post appears to be primarily aimed at getting help for your boys and for support on your dealing with CPTSD-affected loved ones, I have moved it to the board that is specifically created for that. If you would prefer it to be at this Parenting (Children, Teens & Adult Children) (http://outofthefog.net/C-PTSD/forum/index.php?board=179.0) board, when your primary question is on how you as a CPTSD-parent would like to have feedback on dealing with that, let me know and I'll move it back here.
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Dutch Uncle.