Growing Up Again: Parenting Ourselves, Parenting Our Children, Second Edition, Jean Illsley Clarke, Connie Dawson, copyright 1989, 1998. All rights reserved. Hazelden Publication ISBN: 1-56838-190-5
Section 1 Getting Started
Introduction
Chapter 1 Learning to Parent Our Children and Ourselves
Chapter 2 The Hunger for Stimulation, Recognition and Certainty
Section II Nurture: the Gentle Side of Care
Chapter 3 Nurture-What It Is and Why We Need It
Nurture Chart
Chapter 4 Assertive and Supportive Care
Alike but Different
Chapter 5 Life Examples of the Nurture Chart
Chapter 6 When Love Doesn't Stick
Chapter 7 Nurturing Other Adults and Ourselves
Section III Structure: The Firm Side of Care
Chapter 8 Structure-What It Is and Why We Need It
Structure Chart
Chapter 9 Negotiable and Nonnegotiable Rules:
Using Rules as Structure Tools
Chapter 10 The Lessons of Discipline
Chapter 11 Life Examples of the Structure Chart
Chapter 12 The Nurture/Structure Highway
Chapter 13 When Parents Disagree About Rules
Chapter 14 Structure, Shame and Victim Blame
Chapter 15 Growing Up Again-A Story of Change
Section IV Overindulgence: Misguided Nurture, Inadequate Structure
Chapter 16 Overindulgence
Chapter 17 The Hazards of Overindulgence
Chapter 18 Why Parents Overindulge
Chapter 19 What To Do Instead of Overindulging
Alternatives to Overindulging Chart
Section V Denial: The Glue That Keeps Us Stuck
Chapter 20 How We Deny: The Four Levels of Discounting
Discounting, Chart 1
Chapter 21 Examples of the Four Levels of Discounting
Stop Discounting, Chart 2
Chapter 22 Stop the Many Ways of Discounting
Double-Bind Discounting, Chart 3
Chapter 23 Problem Solving: Putting it All Together
Problem Solving Worksheet
Sections VI-VIII and Appendix A and B will be posted separately. Formatting attempted, but hijacked by web design. Still Love IT. :bigwink: