Much of this seems related to defining what one truly considers the "self". Is it a steady-state of being that's always consistent? And departing from that creates the shattering feeling, a kind of disbelief that it's even happening? Or are there other options to consider?
My own shattering experiences seem to have happened so often that I notice them, never could figure what was going on, so kind of just accept them, bad as they feel, and senseless as to the why/what and what, if anything, I could truly do, other than ride them out. That said, it felt like they were going to destroy me when they happened.
They became habitual, but fighting them seemed to make them worse. Rolling with the punch might be an apt phrase. If I don't do that rolling/accepting, it does feel like I'm about to shatter. Sometimes I wonder how I made it through the explosive feelings.
Back to the "self" though. I'm only speculating, but it's based on years of reading about this. Alright, so something that CG Jung and others have posited is that there's a Self (capital S) and self (small s). The Self is the steady observer that's always there; that makes us seem like a unit. The self is more like the daily part, the Self sticks around. And the self can also be multiple characters, something a fellow named Pierro Ferruci (book "What We May Be") was hep on. So each person is kind of their own universe, even. And no, it's not schizophrenia although it could go that route, I suppose.
It might sound contradictory, but maybe part of the scenario is we think that shouldn't or can't happen (and mind is part of small self thinking that). But maybe it's supposed to work that way, and the shattering is also a small self mechanism that prevents the larger shatter from happening (maybe there's multiples of small selves?), like a small fault line diverting another tracer that could trigger an earthquake.
Per usual, I've probably got several heads spinning about now, so end of story--play with options. We're allowed to be creative (aha--another self!).
Thanks for sharing this, I Like Vanilla. It's prob more common than we think, and maybe we're better at this than those mechanical search engines anyway.
My own shattering experiences seem to have happened so often that I notice them, never could figure what was going on, so kind of just accept them, bad as they feel, and senseless as to the why/what and what, if anything, I could truly do, other than ride them out. That said, it felt like they were going to destroy me when they happened.
They became habitual, but fighting them seemed to make them worse. Rolling with the punch might be an apt phrase. If I don't do that rolling/accepting, it does feel like I'm about to shatter. Sometimes I wonder how I made it through the explosive feelings.
Back to the "self" though. I'm only speculating, but it's based on years of reading about this. Alright, so something that CG Jung and others have posited is that there's a Self (capital S) and self (small s). The Self is the steady observer that's always there; that makes us seem like a unit. The self is more like the daily part, the Self sticks around. And the self can also be multiple characters, something a fellow named Pierro Ferruci (book "What We May Be") was hep on. So each person is kind of their own universe, even. And no, it's not schizophrenia although it could go that route, I suppose.
It might sound contradictory, but maybe part of the scenario is we think that shouldn't or can't happen (and mind is part of small self thinking that). But maybe it's supposed to work that way, and the shattering is also a small self mechanism that prevents the larger shatter from happening (maybe there's multiples of small selves?), like a small fault line diverting another tracer that could trigger an earthquake.
Per usual, I've probably got several heads spinning about now, so end of story--play with options. We're allowed to be creative (aha--another self!).
Thanks for sharing this, I Like Vanilla. It's prob more common than we think, and maybe we're better at this than those mechanical search engines anyway.