Hi all,
There is a guy in my life who I briefly dated three years ago, then became friends with. Recently we got involved again. I spent loads of time with him last weekend and he spent the night... he is now acting all distant and not texting or calling me. It is quite a contrast because beforehand he was paying me loads of attention. I feel dismayed and also ashamed.
I don't know if he just used me for sex, or if there is more to it than that. Tbf he recently broke up with someone he was with for 2 years, so maybe he is confused. But i feel kinda betrayed. As he was my friend, I thought I could trust him.
I am feeling really lonely in lockdown, and now I feel cast aside. Maybe I could talk to him about it, but right now my instinct is to give him some space and also try to look after myself. I think I need to get into a better space mentally before taking to him.
It just touches on my abandonment wound- ouch.
There is a guy in my life who I briefly dated three years ago, then became friends with. Recently we got involved again. I spent loads of time with him last weekend and he spent the night... he is now acting all distant and not texting or calling me. It is quite a contrast because beforehand he was paying me loads of attention. I feel dismayed and also ashamed.
I don't know if he just used me for sex, or if there is more to it than that. Tbf he recently broke up with someone he was with for 2 years, so maybe he is confused. But i feel kinda betrayed. As he was my friend, I thought I could trust him.
I am feeling really lonely in lockdown, and now I feel cast aside. Maybe I could talk to him about it, but right now my instinct is to give him some space and also try to look after myself. I think I need to get into a better space mentally before taking to him.
It just touches on my abandonment wound- ouch.