Since going NC with two members of my family, I have thought about specific instances of trauma several times as justification. I wonder if writing those examples down will be helpful. Maybe it is the result of having cptsd, but my own recollection of events is weak. And like much of family trauma, it was hidden -- harsh words spoken to me alone or being the sole witness of inappropriate behavior. My siblings and I have never really talked about it, and only one of them agrees that we were traumatized.
Has anyone else journaled their trauma to bring it into focus or to serve as a written reminder that the behavior was not normal?
Has anyone else journaled their trauma to bring it into focus or to serve as a written reminder that the behavior was not normal?