Hi again, people. I have a question about dating with severe depression.
I started seeing someone earlier this winter. And then I had a bad relapse. I was open and honest with that person and told him about my condition and that I was very interested in him and wanted to continue dating him. He told me he was very interested as well and agreed to wait until April. I had to cancel a few dates on him because I was hoping I could still do it but later learned I did not have any energy to go out. I also had tons of homework and 7 college courses on my plate.
School's over but the person, who messaged me many times while I was taking care of my issues, now does not want to see me.
Why make all these promises and then ghost me like that? Was that revenge? Did I hurt his feelings when I asked to wait for me a couple of months?
This is not the 1st time this happens to me. Do people find it offensive when I tell them I am going through stuff and would like to take some time off?
I don't know if there is a way to explain to someone who's healthy what it's like living with severe treatment resistant depression. It gets worse when I have lots of stress in my life, and that's exactly what I was going through trying to complete those 7 courses.
I started seeing someone earlier this winter. And then I had a bad relapse. I was open and honest with that person and told him about my condition and that I was very interested in him and wanted to continue dating him. He told me he was very interested as well and agreed to wait until April. I had to cancel a few dates on him because I was hoping I could still do it but later learned I did not have any energy to go out. I also had tons of homework and 7 college courses on my plate.
School's over but the person, who messaged me many times while I was taking care of my issues, now does not want to see me.
Why make all these promises and then ghost me like that? Was that revenge? Did I hurt his feelings when I asked to wait for me a couple of months?
This is not the 1st time this happens to me. Do people find it offensive when I tell them I am going through stuff and would like to take some time off?
I don't know if there is a way to explain to someone who's healthy what it's like living with severe treatment resistant depression. It gets worse when I have lots of stress in my life, and that's exactly what I was going through trying to complete those 7 courses.