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CPTSD and Others => Our Relationships with Others => Family => Topic started by: sofie on June 28, 2016, 11:22:51 PM

Title: Can I damage my younger siblings when having complex PTCD?
Post by: sofie on June 28, 2016, 11:22:51 PM
Can I damage my younger siblings when having complex PTCD? And if so, how do I prevent this?
My siblings are children and I am an adult.
My siblings are now 14 and 16 of age.

Title: Re: Can I damage my younger siblings when having complex PTCD?
Post by: Three Roses on June 29, 2016, 05:29:13 AM
First of all, welcome to the forum. There's tons of great info here.

No, you don't damage anyone by simply being around them; it takes active abuse to do that.

http://pete-walker.com is also a great resource.

Glad you're here!
Title: Re: Can I damage my younger siblings when having complex PTCD?
Post by: Dutch Uncle on June 29, 2016, 02:34:18 PM
Hi sofie  :wave: and welcome to Out of the Storm.

I'd like to echo Three Roses: "No, you don't damage anyone by simply being around them; it takes active abuse to do that."  :thumbup:

I may be going out on a limb here, but perhaps this link might be helpful to you: Parentification (http://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/2015/11/4/parentification). You obviously care a lot about your siblings, but you are not the one who should raise them.
You can just be your usual self around them, cPTSD or not.

Welcome again,
:hug:
Dutch Uncle.