back to you, DM. You're definitely not alone. I'm sorry my post stressed you out, thank you for your response. I'm so, so sorry to read that you struggle with some of the same drivers and self-talk I do.
I fear that workaholism isn't something people understand very well, and I think it's hard for people to understand just what a numbing relief it is to run to something like work, but it is every bit as damaging as any other addiction. I daydream about running off to a country where working too much is seriously frowned on (or perhaps impossible, or prohibited by law), but I know myself well enough to know that it wouldn't matter. My drive is from the inside and I have to face it and fix it. Which is just...a long, hard slog.
I hear you, too, on the counseling and the board. I feel like I'm not alone here, when sometimes my T was helpful, wise, amazing....but didn't really know what it's like to live in this space. But then I stay away for long periods of time because it's just really hard to be here.
Peace and hugs to you. And not to make light of it, but I'll raise a glass if I ever see anybody else in the pub with a computer, just in case it's you.
I fear that workaholism isn't something people understand very well, and I think it's hard for people to understand just what a numbing relief it is to run to something like work, but it is every bit as damaging as any other addiction. I daydream about running off to a country where working too much is seriously frowned on (or perhaps impossible, or prohibited by law), but I know myself well enough to know that it wouldn't matter. My drive is from the inside and I have to face it and fix it. Which is just...a long, hard slog.
I hear you, too, on the counseling and the board. I feel like I'm not alone here, when sometimes my T was helpful, wise, amazing....but didn't really know what it's like to live in this space. But then I stay away for long periods of time because it's just really hard to be here.
Peace and hugs to you. And not to make light of it, but I'll raise a glass if I ever see anybody else in the pub with a computer, just in case it's you.