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Treatment & Self-Help => Self-Help & Recovery => Recovery Journals => Topic started by: Kizzie on August 21, 2023, 02:40:41 PM

Title: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on August 21, 2023, 02:40:41 PM

We have just added a section for journals that is private meaning only those I give permission to can see and post in the group.  The reason for this section is that some members are afraid of or are being stalked by their abuser(s), family, etc.  The public journals are not as safe in the sense that an accumulation of information can lead a determined person to recognize someone they are trying to find.  As such, we have this private section.  It is also for members who would feel more comfortable having their journals be more private.

In order to be given permission to join the private section you must have made an introductory post and at least 5 other posts on the forum. This allows me to get a sense of who you are and if it is safe to let you into that section. If you are allowed to join the section and give members reason to feel you are unsafe your access will be taken away.

Please post your request to join the group below. It may take a few days for access to be granted/denied as I will review your forum posts. 

Kizzie

 
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: DD on August 21, 2023, 03:08:50 PM
Is it just for those with stalking issues?
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on August 21, 2023, 06:46:30 PM
Good question DD.  :thumbup:  It's not just for that, it's also for members who want their journals to be private. I've added a sentence about that in the first post in this thread so members are aware.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: SteveM on August 21, 2023, 10:14:46 PM
Kizzie I'd like to join the private section, at this time leave my posts public .
Thank you
Steve M
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on August 22, 2023, 02:53:01 AM
OK Steve I've added you to the private group.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: DD on August 26, 2023, 07:20:29 AM
I'd like to join the private group. I am thinking of also asking my journal to be private. Is that an option?
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on August 26, 2023, 03:55:07 PM
OK DD, I've signed you into the section.  I can move your journal over if you'd like or you can start a new one.

Kizzie
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Bermuda on August 26, 2023, 07:23:04 PM
I would like to join too but keep my journal public.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on August 26, 2023, 07:28:56 PM
OK Bermuda, I've added you to the section.  :)
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: DD on August 29, 2023, 04:07:03 PM
Please move my journal to the private side. Thank you for all your work Kizzie :bighug:
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: NarcKiddo on August 29, 2023, 06:02:19 PM
I would like to join the private group, but I would like to keep my journal in the public section. Thanks, Kizzie.  :grouphug:
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on August 30, 2023, 06:28:48 PM
OK NK, you're in  :)
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: natureluvr on September 02, 2023, 10:54:23 AM
I would like to join the private section please.  I'll just start a new journal in there.  Thank you.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on September 02, 2023, 02:46:15 PM
OK natureluvr, you're in.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: natureluvr on September 02, 2023, 07:05:10 PM
Thank you, Kizzie.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: natureluvr on September 02, 2023, 07:15:08 PM
I'm unable to find the private journals section.  update: never mind, I found it on the main forum.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Ghost on September 11, 2023, 05:40:10 PM
Hi Kizzie!
Can I join the private journal section, please?

thank you
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on September 12, 2023, 04:10:31 PM
OK Ghost I've added you to that section.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: StartingHealing on September 23, 2023, 11:58:25 PM
Kizzie

Could I join the private journal group? 

Maybe one day I'll have it made public.

My thanks in advance
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Eireanne on October 08, 2023, 09:15:40 PM
@ Kizzie, If it's ok, I'd like to start a journal in the private section.  That way I can go through my older entries and as I process them, share my thoughts in the private journal?  Please let me know what would work best - thanks!
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on October 09, 2023, 03:29:15 PM
Hi Eireanne, OK you've been added.  You should be able to see the group down near the bottom of the forum now. 
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Saluki on October 27, 2023, 12:12:41 AM
I would like to join the private journals please. Out of interest, how public is the not private journals? Is it available for anyone browsing the site who doesn't join, or can only people who have registered see it?
Thank you 🙂
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on October 27, 2023, 03:38:47 PM
StartingHealing - I've added you now, so sorry I missed you!

Saluki - I've added you as well. The other journals can be seen by anyone who reads posts at the forum (they don't have to be a member which is why the forum is considered public).  This can be a problem for members who have someone trying to find them because the info in the journals tends to accumulate and it's easier to identify someone there than when their posts are spread about the forum.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Saluki on October 27, 2023, 05:46:25 PM
Thanks Kizzie. Ah, okay, that makes sense.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Chaos rains on December 27, 2023, 06:29:05 PM
Hi Kizzie, hope you are feeling well and peaceful. May I be added to the private journal group? Thx.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on December 28, 2023, 05:02:28 PM
Hi Chaos, I am doing fine thanks and you? 

I added you to the private group so you should see it at the bottom of the forum now.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: sanmagic7 on January 05, 2024, 03:12:06 PM
hi, kizzie,

looks like this is the place to go for requests for the private journals.  w/ everything going on w/ my D1, i've gotten nervous about writing my stuff on the forum.  thanks for considering me.  love and hugs :hug:
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on January 06, 2024, 04:48:04 PM
OK San I've added you to the private group.  Hope you find it feels safer  :hug: 
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Not Alone on January 20, 2024, 06:14:08 PM
Kizzie, I just sent you and email and then saw that Armee sent me this link. I don't want to put my journal in the private group, but I would like access so that I can stay in touch with my friends who journal there. Thank you.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Blueberry on January 21, 2024, 11:46:55 PM
Quote from: Not Alone on January 20, 2024, 06:14:08 PMI don't want to put my journal in the private group, but I would like access so that I can stay in touch with my friends who journal there.

 ;D  That's how I started out. Now I mostly journal in the private group.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Elphanigh on January 24, 2024, 01:18:55 AM
Hi Kizzie, I would love access to this space. The option to keep up with a few people I am more close to here. As well as a space to keep safer for more recent updates with my FOO that is better more safely shared.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on January 24, 2024, 03:47:46 PM
OK Elph, you should have access now.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Elphanigh on January 24, 2024, 06:32:41 PM
Thanks Kizzie!
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: storyworld on January 31, 2024, 06:24:29 PM
Kizzie,
I would like to join this group and to start a private journal, please.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Papa Coco on February 01, 2024, 05:09:21 PM
Hi

I'm a little confused. Maybe you can help me understand:

So..... The standard recovery journals at [Out of the Storm] > [Treatment & Self-Help] > [Self-Help& Recovery] > [Recovery Journals] are public? And if I want privacy, I have to ask to go one more level into a second level of recovery journals?

If this is true, Kizzie, can you add me to the private Recovery Journals thread?
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Blueberry on February 01, 2024, 10:36:31 PM
Quote from: Papa Coco on February 01, 2024, 05:09:21 PMI'm a little confused. Maybe you can help me understand:

So..... The standard recovery journals at [Out of the Storm] > [Treatment & Self-Help] > [Self-Help& Recovery] > [Recovery Journals] are public? And if I want privacy, I have to ask to go one more level into a second level of recovery journals?

PC, I wrote a response here but then moved it over to https://www.cptsd.org/forum/index.php?topic=15744.msg139177#msg139177 in case you or anybody is interested.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on February 02, 2024, 04:51:46 PM
Anyone can read the posts at OOTS Papa, it is meant to be that way so that we educate other survivors and professionals. The anonymity comes from using a pseudonym and not giving details such as where you live if you want to protect your anonymity.

The new journal section is private because some members were uncomfortable having their journals read by anyone. They felt more comfortable writing where only other members of the group could read.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: PaperDoll on February 11, 2024, 02:49:04 PM
Please could I join the private section for recovery journals, Kizzie? Thank you
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on February 11, 2024, 04:36:26 PM
OK PaperDoll, I've added you to the private journal section.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Little2Nothing on February 21, 2024, 11:28:46 AM
Hi Kizzie, would I be able to be added to the private journal section? Thanks.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on February 22, 2024, 08:18:17 PM
OK Little2Nothing I've added you.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Little2Nothing on February 22, 2024, 08:37:23 PM
Thank you. Is there a special link for that?
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Blueberry on February 23, 2024, 12:18:05 AM
Scroll down the index page /main page/first page of forum when you log in. Way at the bottom below the blue bar for Community Corner with Cafe and Creativity, you'll see a blue bar with Private Groups. Underneath that you should be able to see Member Journals. Click on that.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Little2Nothing on February 23, 2024, 09:38:00 AM
Blueberry, thank you!!!! I would have never found that in a million years! I really appreciate your help. 
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Papa Coco on February 23, 2024, 06:15:16 PM
Kizzie,

I'm not sure if I'm in these private journals...If I'm not, can you put me in? If I am, maybe point me to where I access them?

THANKS
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on February 26, 2024, 06:07:47 AM
OK, added you  ;D
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: BecomingMe on April 09, 2024, 12:01:19 AM
Hello Kizzie  :wave:
Could you please add me to this journal section? I'm hoping it will incentivise me to journal more regularly. Thanks
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on April 09, 2024, 04:12:53 PM
OK BecomingMe, I've added you to the private journal area. 
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Dina on April 29, 2024, 01:31:20 PM
Hi Kizzie, Can you please add me? There's a topic I'd like to journal about but I'm worried that it could be easily identifiable for people close to me. TIA
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on April 29, 2024, 03:06:11 PM
OK Dina, done.
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Cascade on May 12, 2024, 01:15:09 PM
Hi Kizzie,
At your convenience, I'd love to be added to the private journal section.  Thanks so much!
   -Cascade
Title: Re: Joining the Private Section for Journals
Post by: Kizzie on May 13, 2024, 03:55:54 PM
OK Cascade you've been added.