Hi,
I've just joined. I was in an abusive relationship for nearly 20 years, he wasn't abusive to start with but when he knew I wanted to get out he got a lot worse. I have 3 children with him. The children refuse to see him and have no relationship with him whatsoever. We have been separated (never married) almost 7 years and he still won't leave us alone.
He lies to everyone that will listen to him. He sends the police around after making false reports. He is a nasty monster. Myself and the children have all needed counselling. Two of the children still see the therapist.
My current relationship is on its last legs due to the pressure and stress I am under due to my ex. He said he would destroy me if I left him. I lost my job, friends, confidence because of him. He just won't stop.
I rarely go out apart from school or food shopping. I've become like a recluse. I feel like I'm not living my life, just surviving day to day.
I've just joined. I was in an abusive relationship for nearly 20 years, he wasn't abusive to start with but when he knew I wanted to get out he got a lot worse. I have 3 children with him. The children refuse to see him and have no relationship with him whatsoever. We have been separated (never married) almost 7 years and he still won't leave us alone.
He lies to everyone that will listen to him. He sends the police around after making false reports. He is a nasty monster. Myself and the children have all needed counselling. Two of the children still see the therapist.
My current relationship is on its last legs due to the pressure and stress I am under due to my ex. He said he would destroy me if I left him. I lost my job, friends, confidence because of him. He just won't stop.
I rarely go out apart from school or food shopping. I've become like a recluse. I feel like I'm not living my life, just surviving day to day.