For me, participating in other people's family life has been a source of both solace and sadness. I have felt welcomed and comfortable. Years ago, when parents of friends were younger and healthier, I could occasionally seek a little surrogate parenting. I have happy memories.
But nothing ever truly compensates for what wasn't -- or for what was instead. I enjoy only a corner of functional family life.
But nothing ever truly compensates for what wasn't -- or for what was instead. I enjoy only a corner of functional family life.